The
Pilgrimage
One community event at
the second site I taught at
was particularly memorable. It
was an annual religious pilgrimage. The people in the vereda
invited
me to watch them prepare their Virgin Mary
statue for the trip, then we
got up at 3:30 the next morning (no class that day—a Friday—since no
one would be around) to
prepare food for the journey and get ready to leave on
foot at 5:15 a.m. There were about 30 of us and it was a beautiful
3½-hour walk – a good way to get to know people in the community.
When we arrived at the designated site in a field, there
were already about 300 people there with lots of dancing, drinking
and visiting in progress;
it reminded me of a country
fair. The priest didn't show up until almost 11 a.m. so some of the
fellows were rather unsteady
on their feet by the time the
mass was said. In spite of protestations and the
fact I'm not Catholic, the
group I was with pushed me up onto the wooden stage to
sit with the priest and
all the statues. How
embarrassing! Fortunately, I wasn't asked to speak. Soon thereafter
the priest left and everyone headed (some staggering) home. Someone
loaned me a horse to get to the main road where I soon caught a
cattle truck to the nearest town, then a bus home for the weekend.
Over
the years, I've stayed in
touch with one member of that community who invited me to stay at her
home a few weekends, and whose
sisters
I met at other
sites.
Like many Colombians at the
time, they had two photos on their living room wall: one of Pope
Paul VI, who visited Bogota in 1964,
and another of President Kennedy, who
visited Colombia in 1961.
Gimme
the Keys, Please
When you rely on whatever form of wheels that happen by you can find yourself in
uncomfortable situations. Sometimes on Friday trips back to the city,
the Jeep or truck that happened by was driven by someone who had
already started celebrating the weekend, or perhaps atttended a clausura. On one such trip when an
obviously inebriated driver stopped along the way for another drink,
I suggested he let me drive. He laughed, saying I wouldn't
know how to drive a stick shift. I insisted I knew how and,
surprisingly, he handed over the keys. The other passengers
were men but they seemed relieved and nixed my offer of letting one
of them drive. I drove straight to our apartment and handed the keys
to one of them. The original driver slept the whole way.
Mule carrying cane that will be processed into sugar, brown sugar (always added to coffee here), or fermented into gurarapo, a strong alcoholic drink. |
“Because
He Loved Her”
Something worse than drunk-driving happened as I arrived at the
office in the city one Friday afternoon. I was getting my things
out of the trunk of a shared taxi when the driver rushed back and
pulled me to the ground behind the car. He pointed to the building
and we peered above the car to see a man with a gun menacing one of
the childcare workers who was supervising children in the big fenced
yard. He shot her. The children screamed and ran and someone came out
to grab the man, another to carry the girl inside. When the man was under
control and the police arrived, I continued into the building and in
the confusion was asked to say something to the children. I couldn't
speak. How can you explain what they just witnessed to a child? Fortunately,
another woman came to the rescue and handled the situation
beautifully. I truly admired her calmness and ability to convince the
children that if everyone sang for the girl, she would feel much
better. They sang and sang through their tears. The girl survived,
fortunately. I was still shaken when I went to the SENA offices (my
Colombian bosses) a short while later and was distressed when even
they weren't alarmed and said the boyfriend had surely done it “because he
loved her.” He was apparently jealous when she rejected him for
someone else.
Beliefs
Every culture has them, ones that seem odd to people from elsewhere.
I encountered many in Colombia, especially in rural
areas. Some were harmless, others had merit. Among them:
Childbirth: after giving birth, a woman was supposed to
remain in bed and not bathe for 40 days, resting and eating
only chicken and beets (beets were believed to be good for the
blood). I never talked with a woman who had done that and can only
imagine how difficult it would have been without strong family
support since, without the modern conveniences we take for granted
(electricity, running water, cooking and washing appliances, etc.),
daily life was quite demanding. And chicken was not cheap, even if
you raised your own. It was served on special occasions. Besides, how awful would you feel being cooped up so long without bathing or exercise? Childbirth itself would surely have been more pleasant.
I was told girls and women should not eat limes or avocado during their periods. One group asked me if it was true that women shouldn't look at snake bites then either.
One woman told the class if you have a nosebleed, you should inhale smoke or put your head over a cup of lime juice (limes were supposed to "cut" the blood).
Asthma: a driver told me that turtle blood is the best remedy.
I was told girls and women should not eat limes or avocado during their periods. One group asked me if it was true that women shouldn't look at snake bites then either.
One woman told the class if you have a nosebleed, you should inhale smoke or put your head over a cup of lime juice (limes were supposed to "cut" the blood).
Asthma: a driver told me that turtle blood is the best remedy.